Hello Kathy,
I have not replied to yours earlier because we have been out most of the day enjoying the spring sunshine. My thermometer showed that it had reached 16 degrees in the shade. We managed to get some seed trays and pots on the go in the greenhouse too. Tomatoes and courgettes are already showing.
I think Bad Oeynhausen had probably changed by the time you were there. I don't mean necessarily the buildings but the atmosphere. I was there 20 years before you were and the war had not long finished. Reconstruction had not begun. Unfortunately I had a spot of bad luck with my photos of that era, I left a box of them on the tube in London when I was at university and I never recovered them. Here is a photo of the actual HQ building I found on the Internet.
I travelled round the immediate area a bit. Minden, Herford, Detmold, Bielefeld, Hameln and Bad Salzuflen are all names that come to mind. I had six weeks in Goetingen (where the university is) and also went to Goslar. I am only reeling these names off in case any of them ring a bell. I imagine you were not of an age to take it all in.
I think one of the reasons your mother never found any signs of it being an HQ was because we all occupied existing buildings, there wasn't a barracks as such. The Kurhaus was the NAAFI !!!
I remember General Stratton had a fine detached house which had originally been built by a German builder for himself. There was a hilarious occasion when he wanted a new fireplace built which we designed for him. I had to spend the whole time sitting on his sofa watching a German bricklayer working. I remember once when the room had one colonel, one major, one CQMS, a staff sergeant and a lance corporal all watching this wretched German lay bricks. It was after all for the General. The lance corporal by the way was me
Eric H