I sympathise with your plight, Eric.
When I was on dial-up, I experienced a few problems. In my case, part of the problem was spyware running unknown on my computer. When I cleaned that up, things improved.
Cookies:
These are totally misunderstood, in my opinion.
Some sites dont work unless you allow cookies, the main example being on-line Plant/Seed Suppliers and on-line Airline bookings - anyone with a particular type of shopping cart.
Heres how that works. When you start to use their shopping cart, you may add an item to the basket, so youve actually created a record on a database on their server.
You browse through their catalog, and 5 minutes later add a second item to the basket.
In between times, over that 5 minutes, many other customers may have "added to basket".
So, how does their computer know its you who has returned, to add your second item?
They use cookies. Its a small packet of information, saved on your computer, which is transmitted each time you "add to basket" telling the server - "Hey, its me back again".
Its easy to see how that "Hey its me" transmission is abused, hence in the modern age we have adware, spyware and other wonderful things.
Thus, we have good cookies and evil cookies.
How to deal with that?
My preferred method:
I block cookies, then control which sites ARE allowed to set cookies.
To do that (Internet explorer):
On the Menu (top of browser screen) Click
Tools Click Internet options.
Click
PrivacyMove the slider bar up to
High Click
ApplyThat stops the baddies.
Now to allow the goodies:
Click
Tools Click
Internet options.
Click
PrivacyClick
SitesCopy (elsewhere) and paste a website address (URL) into the
Address of website field
Click
AllowAdd more sites as required.
You'll be caught out with this a few times.
Example. My daughter tried to book a flight on-line.
It failed to accept her booking.
After a bit of head scratching, I realised that it was failing because it wasnt permitted to set a cookie (on my computer)
I added the website to the
Allow list, and all was fine.
My 15 year old grandson uses my computer, (very skilfully!) and I'm less terrifed now Ive this restriction in place.
RE:
If it don't work then I will remove the numbers and give up on the Internet until we move house!
Please tell me that's a joke