I am very sorry to read all this Eric.
They obviously got hold of your email contact list and spammed out from there - probably a Trojan virus.
I also received one of those emails purporting to be from a distressed guy in Manilla (i.e. you!) as I am obviously on your contact list.
I then checked and noticed that you had been on the forum, so it obviously was not genuine.
I sent you an email enquiring if you were OK (but not referring to the email in case it alarmed you).
I didn't get a reply, and now I know why
You were on the forum again so I let it go.
I sincerely hope they didn't get access to any sensitive financial details!
I also hope no one sent "you" money, as requested!
Laurie has given you (and other forum members) some sound and wise advice.
I get frequent phishing emails from "paypal".
I received them years before I even had an account with them, so Ive always been wary.
I also get phising email from Banks which I don't have accounts with.
I can understand how easy it would be to accidentally open and click a link.
As Laurie says - Don't ever click. Instead use your normal method to access your Paypal or any other account.
Good luck Eric. Reading about "the aftermath" I can see this is a very difficult situation which would be a major challenge for any computer expert.